Escorts

So I have this friend who has been working as an escort for the last 12 years. She is quite an intelligent, beautiful and sexy young lady with a graduate degree and I have never understood why she chose that path. Once in a while she does office work then according to her she gets bored and gets back to working as an escort. She currently has no plans to quit her profession.

I also have a male friend who has part time office work and fills his other time working as an escort. For him its all about the money and his office work is a cover.

Is escorting an easier way of making money? Seems to me the answer is yes.

There are some people who of course do it as a last resort to help with debt etc. Then there are those who are forced into it through trafficking. Are other people choosing escorting as a profession by choice? Films like the classic ‘Pretty Woman’ and the ‘Wedding Date’ promote the fun side to escorting but from what I’ve seen that is not always the case. My friends once sustained some burn marks from an overzealous client but that still did not deter her. I am beginning to think that she might be a sex addict and this could be her way of getting regular guaranteed sex. Could I be right?

I am not judging anyone, everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do. And we are all entiltled to free will but that does not stop me from worrying about my friends.

Threesome

Quite recently my husband and I decided to explore the world of threesomes. We have watched quite a few threesome videos and were both quite aroused and intrigued by the thought of partaking in it ourselves. All that with dreams and fantasies added in the mixture we decided to look into our fantasy further.

Having read various articles and forums with on the subject, with both negative and positive views we decided it felt right for us. We placed an ad on craiglists listing the characteristics of the guy we wanted stating specifically that the guy had to be fully bisexual so as to engage with both of us. In addition to Craig list we also signed up with a few known sites.

Within a few hours of posting our ad we got hits and were feeling rather excited and upbeat. However the excitement was short lived as it became apparent that most of the guys just wanted DP and nothing to do with my husband. When we responded by asking them if they were versatile, they stopped replying or just made it clearly they were not truly bisexual. Come on people! being bisexual is not classified as being a person who can stand to be within close proximity of another person of the same sex.

Needless to say we ended up not exploring this fantasy but we do look forward to dipping our toes into that world in the near future. Just the thought of introducing a stranger into the mix watching him pleasuring my husband whilst I explore both of their bodies makes me wet with desire. And yes I’ve also had plenty of fantasies involving a threesome with another woman and wow in my fantasies its mind blowing. No one can deny that the female body is quite exquisite and who would pass on the opportunity to get into bed with a remarkably beautiful lady – not me :-).

What are your views on threesomes?

Sexual orientation

Why put a label on who we are as people? Doesn’t that only lead to negativity (stress, bullying, depression, violence and in the worst case – death)?

Can one honestly be truly heterosexual? I must admit I myself am still unsure of where I fit in under these labels. Is there a label for a young unxeprienced bisexual woman but publicly heterosexual?

I’ve never been a girly girl always been a Tom boy, love my trainers and Dr Martens but not impartial to wearing some heals for special occasions. Perhaps I should also mention that I am married to a guy. On my wedding day I didnt wear the traditional white heals but chose to don some flat pumps. Anyway let me not get off track :-). I have always found some women very attractive to the extent that I find myself just captivated by them and hot under the collar but then again I also feel the same about some men. I haver never been with a women though unless you count one kiss. In the past I have flirted with women and once had a girl grind against me in the club. This led to her putting her hands down my pants which I found rather exciting.

Based on this and the available labels I guess I would be classed as a virgin bisexual as I have had many fantasies and daydreams about being with a woman.

Do I dare say more?

In truth my husband himself has only just come to terms with the fact that he also probably fits under the label virgin bisexual. It shocked him to learn that I have known this since we started dating before he had figured it out himself. Does that mean my own sexual orientation played a factor in my attraction to him?

There is some food for thought for you 😉