Why put a label on who we are as people? Doesn’t that only lead to negativity (stress, bullying, depression, violence and in the worst case – death)?
Can one honestly be truly heterosexual? I must admit I myself am still unsure of where I fit in under these labels. Is there a label for a young unxeprienced bisexual woman but publicly heterosexual?
I’ve never been a girly girl always been a Tom boy, love my trainers and Dr Martens but not impartial to wearing some heals for special occasions. Perhaps I should also mention that I am married to a guy. On my wedding day I didnt wear the traditional white heals but chose to don some flat pumps. Anyway let me not get off track :-). I have always found some women very attractive to the extent that I find myself just captivated by them and hot under the collar but then again I also feel the same about some men. I haver never been with a women though unless you count one kiss. In the past I have flirted with women and once had a girl grind against me in the club. This led to her putting her hands down my pants which I found rather exciting.
Based on this and the available labels I guess I would be classed as a virgin bisexual as I have had many fantasies and daydreams about being with a woman.
Do I dare say more?
In truth my husband himself has only just come to terms with the fact that he also probably fits under the label virgin bisexual. It shocked him to learn that I have known this since we started dating before he had figured it out himself. Does that mean my own sexual orientation played a factor in my attraction to him?
There is some food for thought for you 😉
Naughtyminx 